So, only the wealthy should have kids? Because if you factor everything in that we "should" be doing for kids, only the wealthy could afford it. Seriously, why

So, only the wealthy should have kids? Because if you factor everything in that we "should" be doing for kids, only the wealthy could afford it. Seriously, why don't we leave the decision of who should be allowed to have kids out of the conversation and we as a society buck up and help take care of the ones who need help?