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I’m a Female Y Combinator Founder and You Can Be Too
- khuyi 16y agoaside from #6, this is great in general career advice across sectors...not just YC advice.
- jbail 16y agoI don't know what being a female has to do with your post. Good tips for a founder of any gender though.
- inmygarage 16y agoYep, that's sort of the point - the advice is the same no matter your gender. I put that in the title because my theory about why more women don't apply is because they feel like they won't get in, and in general I have found (gross gender generalization coming) that women take rejection worse than men.
- AmberShah 16y agoI second that it's a good useful post, but misses the point of why women aren't female Y-Combinator founders. If you aren't ready for a life of rejection, then it doesn't have anything to do with Y-Combinator, but don't be an entrepreneur!
- inmygarage 16y agoYep, the rejection part I agree with. I wanted to write something actionable instead of yet another theoretical musing on the dearth of women in technology. The "why" part of it is something that I think has been well-explored.
- jbail 16y agoYour generalization could be correct (as a male, I would not even try to generalize women), but I think more women don't apply simply because there are less women in tech. The fear of rejection keeps men on the sidelines too. There are just more men hackers and thus more apply and become founders of tech companies.
- STHayden 16y agoand that's why you have to attack the problem at every decision point. From birth to death we are told what is a masculin job and what is a feminine job. So from birth to death we need to start pointing out that jobs are simply to be done by people who can accomplish the tasks.
- STHayden 16y agoI agree. Exposure of role models is key. Being the first to do something often sucks. so it;s nice to know others have been there and it was not so bad.
- araneae 16y agoA title should reflect the actual contents of the article. It had nothing to do with being female. I call link bait.
- frossie 16y agoThe fact that it is written by a female founder is what doesn't make it linkbait. It's a case of "hey girlfriend, here's the list of things you need to do to be a founder, and guess what, none of them involve dropping testicles". They psychology of these things is quite complicated.
- araneae 16y agoI don't see what's complicated; it's an HN policy that titles should succinctly and accurately reflect the content of the article submitted. And this was a self post.
- jacoblyles 16y agoYC is approaching the acceptance rate of Berkeley PHD - due to the ever increasing supply of applicants, mostly. The classes have actually gotten larger. So any feelings that "I probably won't get in" are probably true for any gendered applicant. By all means apply! But have a backup plan. I have known people that have looked for funding only from YC. That's just as silly as only applying to Berkeley and then giving up on your PHD if you don't get in. As they say in football, that's not a high percentage play. There were plenty of women PHDs at my graduate school, and men too! So I know people of many genders can navigate processes with lots of rejection.
- blasdel 16y agoTo be accepted, the 'backup plan' needs to be similar in implementation to the 'YC plan' — if you wouldn't have proceeded with your startup in some form if you got rejected, then YC will almost definitely reject you.
- mkramlich 16y agoOr... just start your fricking company. pg rocks, YC rocks, but you can actually start a business without either one being involved. without any outside investors in fact.
- DanielRibeiro 16y agoThere is also the rapportive suggestion (accidental launch): http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=1595743 http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=1595743
- 100k 16y agoI can't be a female YC founder but this is great advice for anyone who wants to apply to YC or simply found a startup. Definite +1 on talking to alumni. That helped us a lot, and everyone we talked to was happy to give advice. While most alumni are in Silicon Valley, they are spread out all over the place. Most of the alumni I reached out to I had met at conferences, so that is another good way to build your network. Chat up people - you never know who you're sitting next to.
- dsantos 16y agojust to mention, Jen McCabe from http://imoveyou.com http://imoveyou.com , Y Combinator s10, is another female founder that is doing well.
- leeskye 16y agoDon't forget Jessica Mah of InDinero.
- arfrank 16y agoJust curious: Are there any others from previous sessions YC classes?
- contagionhealth 16y agoThink there have been 7 female founders so far...
- contagionhealth 16y agoThanks all. I try to stay out of the 'female' debate posts (after doing one that covered pretty much everything I had to say on the topic). Bottom line: Within 10 minutes of meeting you (or less, if you're very good), whether you're XX or XY shouldn't matter. Whomever you're speaking with should be thinking "damn. That's an amazingly driven founder." Period.
- patio11 16y agoDO NOT ask for anything in return from anyone. I'm very much onboard with much of the other advice, and would have agreed with this bit for something like 25 or 26 years of my life. My goodness, I sure wasted a lot of people's time. Create more value than you capture, but don't be afraid to sell. It gets easier with practice, and it is a core competence in a startup founder. You've got to be able to sell to customers, sell to investors, sell to the press, sell to your employees, etc etc. The most direct path to what you want is a) describing why it is in X's interest to give it to you and then b) asking for it. It works. Astoundingly well. Relatedly, "quality content will win out" is not a marketing strategy. Much closer to the truth is this old chestnut: if your ideas are any good, you'll have to shove them down people's throats. P.S. You're not a nobody. You're someone who has something X should want, but does not yet have a personal introduction, means of social proof, or whatever it is that the supposed "somebodies" have. You can fix that, and you should fix it, ASAP. The ROI on fixing it will be spectacularly better than more cold emails.
- zackattack 16y ago>If your ideas are any good, you'll have to shove them down people's throats Is this true? It makes me think of Helicobacter pylori and the guy who gave himself an ulcer to prove that he discovered a cure. But maybe that "chestnut" only applies to schema violators?
- msencenb 16y agoI think it is fairly true... the world seems to (generally) be resistant to change even if an idea is fantastic/revolutionary.
- zackattack 16y agoI agree, so perhaps we could phrase it as "the world seems to be resistant to revolutionary ideas, but generally accepting of good ideas as long as they function within the status quo and are 'good' by available standards." ;)
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- lsd5you 16y agoNo, I'm fairly sure this is not possible for me. Although it is not a practical consideration, I do wonder what would happen if everybody followed the nothing ventured nothing gained advice and sent cold the 'optimal' amount of cold solicitations. There would have to be a point of diminishing returns eventually, in aggregate. Is this an important property of good advice - that people do not follow it, otherwise it ceases to be good advice?
- joshuacc 16y agoNo. While there is a subset of good advice which is only valuable because a lot of people don't follow it, that's not a property of good advice in general. For instance, "Eat healthy food" is good advice, and doesn't become less good even if everyone began following it. Marketing advice, though, is probably more susceptible to "becoming bad," since it typically depends on making your product stand out. Thus, as more people follow a bit of advice on how to stand out, the less this advice actually helps them stand out.
- BenSchaechter 16y agoI completely agree on the Startup School piece of advice. I flew out from Nebraska last year and met more entrepreneurial/like-minded people than I ever knew existed. That event was one of the main motivations for me to move out to the Valley. I still keep in close contact with a number of people I met from that event last year. There are very few places where you can meet fellow hackers who are entrepreneurial focused. Hearing what the speakers have to say is just the icing on the cake.
- pgbovine 16y agoHere’s a freebie: the HN audience is uber-highbrow and likes longer articles on weekends. would y'all describe HN as highbrow? seems pretty populist to me. e.g., every time there's mention of elite universities or anything prestigious in 'the establishment', it gets ripped to shreds and denigrated as being for elitists.
- inmygarage 16y agointerested to hear what people think about this question. i would say unequivocally yes, but i wrote the post.
- NickPollard 16y agoTo me 'highbrow' means someone who enjoys things that they think are intelligent. Whilst the actual level of the articles and discussion may be in doubt, the important point is that HNers would like them to be intellectual.
- orangecat 16y agoAnti-establishment but intellectual.
- sprout 16y ago"Every revolutionary is a closet aristocrat." - Frank Herbert
- mkramlich 16y agoi found there's a great deal of pro-higher-ed elitism here. the "if you didn't do grad school CS you can't possibly be as good as me" mindset, in particular.
- startupgrrl 16y agoHN is not the boy's club you may think it is. It is not an advertisement for YC. It was always about a certain someone in the startup community. But...love won out. He was always so patient and giving and eventually I was able to get over all these issues and really be in a position where I could love somebody...and I basically woke up one morning and realized that I was in love with him, and he was the man I would marry. So, I took him to the pier we launched canoes from, and told him how I had overcome all these issues and wasn't scared to let him in anymore and that I was so glad he failed in all his initial plans after college, because it meant we were together in Silicon Valley.
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- todayiamme 16y agoIt's funny that I have been doing something like this for a while on my own, but to be honest I still think that I am not YC material. What's really surprising is that I just realized that I want to keep it that way. Sure, I have a bunch of ideas and I have refined them. Yeah, I can write comments and get karma. I have gotten projects funded for nothing, but I would never write a bet on myself. I've just never thought myself as someone good enough for anything, but I simply try. I know that this isn't something healthy, but it has, ironically, helped me out. I've taken risks that no sane person would take, because I always thought that I was going to lose anyway. Can you imagine a 17 y/o trying to make a dynamic haptic UI? (what the hell was I thinking?) Sure, I have failed a lot. I have tried to run before I could crawl, but in the process I've learnt and gained far more than those who played it safe. So, maybe hopelessness in the right dose might actually be a good thing. After all what's there to lose, if you think that you have nothing to lose?
- StavrosK 16y agoI don't understand why people have opinions of themselves, let alone why they have negative ones. If I'm not good enough for YC, I'll apply and let the YC people tell me. Why would you reject yourself?
- todayiamme 16y agoI think that this is a function of a lot of things that change over time. I am/was heavily influenced by my parents opinion of me. I used to think that if my mother repeatedly says that I am not good enough to exist, then maybe that's the truth. As, if I am truly that bad then how could I possible know? That would be a really silly recursion. If I was crazy how could I tell whether or not I was crazy? Surely, some other reference was needed. I know that this sounds silly, but this is an improvement. For the life of me I can't think about a pattern that follows specific types of opinions. It's just the nature of this chaotic world. There is an infinitely large range of possible permutations of experiences and reactions to those experiences. So, it's quite tough to say if given the same set of circumstances whether or not two people will have the same opinion, or think the same way. Hence, it's tougher to extract a broad pattern surrounding such things. Unless you spend a lot of time with the person and find out the why and how.
- jl 16y agoIt's funny, I wrote an essay (that I haven't published yet) over the weekend about being a female founder. It has some of the same sentiments as Amanda's post. It was surprising how little of my advice seemed very specific to being a female.
- inmygarage 16y agooh cool! excited to read it when it's ready. yeah agree re: lack of female-specific advice. seems to me you either do it or you don't.
- jlees 16y agoLove how Amanda's advice was all generic, also. It shouldn't make a difference what gender or species you are for YC, and it doesn't.
- bkudria 16y agoPretty sure PG funds only Homo sapiens
- izaidi 16y ago(rips up plans for echolocation-based social gaming startup)
- Agent101 16y agoNot so fast! Pivot and make it for blind kids http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YBv79LKfMt4 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YBv79LKfMt4
- m-photonic 16y agoSo far.
- presidentender 16y agoNo, I really can't.
- ckuehne 16y agoMy thoughts exactly. But then again: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_change http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_change.
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- jonathanjaeger 16y agoFor those who haven't seen Amanda's interview on This Week in Social Media, you might want to check it out on thisweekin.com (show link: http://bit.ly/9GiyPy http://bit.ly/9GiyPy).
- patana 16y agoSorry, but I can't be a female because I'm a male today.
- dan_orange 16y agoHave you tried Expert Sexchange?
- sgt 16y agosnip snip. You're on your way, peepster.
- edanm 16y agoSome very interesting advice. I especially loved the bit about talent sourcing; the more I talk to various startup founders, the more I realize how desperately people are looking for good talent. Also loved this quote: "If you ask 100 people out for coffee and even ONE agrees to go with you, that’s one more coffee than you’d get by doing nothing. Net win."
- Swoopey 16y agoThanks for sharing your thoughts Amanda, I agree the advice wasn't gender specific but quite useful and encouraging nonetheless. I would love to hear more from female founders like you though. It's quite encouraging.
- acqq 16y agoSo it's finally time for XY and XX Combinators! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/XY_sex-determination_system http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/XY_sex-determination_system
- acqq 16y agoWell I'm afraid I have to explain the post, although I believed enough of people would understand the hint and even develop discussion in that direction. I certainly didn't expect the reaction I've got. Maybe I'm being genetics-biased but the name "Y combinator" always had for me a "macho" association -- Y being the chromosome unique for men. When I read the title "woman ... Y combinator" it really stands out to me. And I see nothing wrong in the idea of also having something like the "X combinator" which would be intentionally more oriented towards women in the business.
- Mz 16y agoMy understanding is that the name has nothing to do with gender and, instead, has something to do with this: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fixed_point_combinator http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fixed_point_combinator http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fixed_point_combinator#Y_combinator http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fixed_point_combinator#Y_combin...
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- KateKendall 16y agoHas anyone ever put together a list of female YC founders and their companies? Also, is the trend for female YC founders to be solo-founders?
- annajohnson 16y agoI guess the 'female founder' thing is a hook to, um, hook us all into reading the article (including me, since I'm female and a startup co-founder), Actually, writing an article about Y Combinator is another obvious hook for this crowd. But, ultimately, I wish the article didn't mention the female thing. Lose that and suddenly this is a great article for anyone wanting to apply to YC, as well as conveying general principles for startups in general. Focusing on being female does not help female entrepreneurs get/maintain credibility - it draws attention to their gender rather than their substance as entrepreneurs.
- ju2tin 16y agoMaybe they would get more women founders if they called it X Combinator?
- askar_yu 16y ago"Or if you are a 21 year old white male hacker, you might find this useful too." can somebody shed a light on the meaning/joke? behind this sentence? what's there about being a 21 year old white male hacker?