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For many years, my fantasy of retirement was that I would have a house with a large back yard so that I could spend my days reading outside surrounded by trees.
by Kuiper 9y ago
For many years, my fantasy of retirement was that I would have a house with a large back yard so that I could spend my days reading outside surrounded by trees.
At some point I realized that there was no reason I had to wait until retirement to realize this fantasy, and now many of my Saturdays begin with a walk to a local park, followed by several hours of reading. It's just as pleasurable as I had expected, and it's actually been surprisingly easy to make this happen now that I've made it a priority. It doesn't even take a whole day; there are plenty of Saturdays when I go out to read during the morning and still have the rest of the day free for whatever chores or social engagements are vying for my attention. I even find myself doing it on weekday afternoons evenings, especially in summer when the days are long.
Another thing that has led to me reading more books is just giving myself permission to read books in increments of 15 minutes or less during random moments of downtime. Moments on/waiting for the tram or between phone meetings that I would have spent checking Twitter on my phone can just as easily be spent reading a book. This isn't so good for certain kinds of content that you might want to devote more attention to, but I've found that I'm perfectly capable of enjoying fiction in 10-minute increments without significantly diminishing my enjoyment of it. And oftentimes, reading bits of a novel throughout the day often gives me a certain amount of momentum that makes me want to continue reading the book during my free time in the evening during time that I might have otherwise spent watching TV, browsing reddit/facebook, etc.
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- rmrm 9y agoIndeed. Managing contractors, dealing with miscommunications and sloppy work - it can add a stress dimension that is far worse. I do my best to choose the enjoy the upkeep, but I always warn people to make sure their eyes are open. Condo life has its own very real advantages.
- garfieldnate 9y agoMy mom gets mad at my sister and I sometimes because we carry our books with us and when we get tired of talking we just take them out and start reading. Even at restaurants!
- nojvek 9y agoI’d be super proud of my kids, if they did that. First kiddo coming soon. How do parents raise book loving kids rather than phone loving kids?
- garfieldnate 8y agoLots of books in the house, and my parents love to read. My wife's family has even more piles of books everywhere, and all six kids are super speed-readers! They do love their phones too, though. They read a lot of fan-fic on them.