> I will note that I didn't tolerate my kids. I adored them. > It's pretty bad if you don't tolerate your own children. This was a good tolerant reply. The “i

> I will note that I didn't tolerate my kids. I adored them. > It's pretty bad if you don't tolerate your own children. This was a good tolerant reply. The “i adore them” comment reads as a cheap snipe, whether it was actually designed to be or the author was just tone deaf is another matter. On balance, i find it was a calculated remark. An example of toxic commentary yet entirely within the rules because the problem was not the words but the implication. And yet the reply didnt antogonise the situation further. A catalog of examples like this could be a useful reference in moderation.