Yes, yes it is too much to ask. I won't judge a body for being a brony, or a never-nude, or a benign cultist, or a thousand other things. I don't expect normal

Yes, yes it is too much to ask. I won't judge a body for being a brony, or a never-nude, or a benign cultist, or a thousand other things. I don't expect normalcy from anyone. That said, there are unqualified evils in the world. Things and acts that slowly crush and rend human lives, making the world a darker place, more filled with despair, jealousy, and hatred. Slavery, including debt slavery, is one. The sex trade, the topic at hand, is another. To not speak out against evils of that scale and consequence is to side with them. Changing topics back to your quibble about infidelity: it's also evil, if on a more personal scale. Where there are vows of that weight and import, abandoning them unilaterally is ruinous to yourself, your family, those who know you, and many that you will never know or meet. It may not be a matter for the law, but it's not a silly little quirk to smile and wink at.