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>How do you avoid ruminating on things in your day that have pissed you off? This is my biggest issue. Try Buddhism. Most of the things you ruminate on are pro

by vegai 19y ago

>How do you avoid ruminating on things in your day that have pissed you off? This is my biggest issue. Try Buddhism. Most of the things you ruminate on are probably worthless, and a religion may help you to see that better and earlier. On the other hand, it may develop qualities in you that are not favourable for an entrepreneur.

radu_floricica 19y ago
Zen would be a much better suggestion. More focused, and less religious. You can be as easely zen atheist or zen christian as zen buddhist.
- dhimes 19y ago
  Actually, Zen is simply one path to Buddhism. You have to check out the sects so you don't get into one you consider strange, but, for instance, vipassana is another path that (as far as I know) doesn't make claims to worshipping deities. Steve Hagen writes well on this, as does Gunaratana. Remember, the Buddha was agnostic. He simply gave advice. Follow it if it works for you. Buddhism doesn't address faith, but reality.
  - gruseom 19y ago
    Both this and the parent comment strike me as very much a Western and modern spin on Buddhism. It's one I happen to be sympathetic to. But I'm also skeptical of what happens when such traditions are taken far out of their historical and cultural context.
    - dhimes 19y ago
      This is a great comment. I read folks I think are grounded in both contexts--modern and historical. Try "What the Buddha Taught" by Walpola Rahula for background.
      - gruseom 19y ago
        Speaking of modern variants, did you ever run across "After the Absolute" by David Gold? It's about the author's experiences with a hillbilly Zen teacher from the back woods of West Virginia. There's no historical connection to Buddhism (or even Zen for that matter) but it's a vivid story. The guy in question was a volatile character who half the time would share profound spiritual insights and the other half would pull a gun on you.
        dhimes 19y ago
        Sounds interesting. I'll have to check it out.
    - radu_floricica 19y ago
      Of course it's modern and western, but not less useful. As for classical buddhism, as far as I got into it it's an ok religion, but just as full of myths and dogma as the orthodox christianity I was born in. I much prefer the modern version. Although after a little sorting I suspect I'd be very interested in a lot of old texts by Dogen and such - something that probably isn't true with christianity.
OpenWebU 19y ago
Actually, my boyfriend turned me onto Buddhism. He grew up with it - he's from Sri Lanka. He meditates every day, so much so that when he went to SF and they wired him up with the electrodes, his brain waves were really different. He's no wimp - He's a VP of a public tech company. He says it clears his mind, helps him make balanced decisions, and navigate company politics. Judgment is one of the most difficult parts of being an entrepreneur - so that anything that helps that could be positive.

by vegai 19y ago

radu_floricica 19y ago

Zen would be a much better suggestion. More focused, and less religious. You can be as easely zen atheist or zen christian as zen buddhist.

dhimes 19y ago
Actually, Zen is simply one path to Buddhism. You have to check out the sects so you don't get into one you consider strange, but, for instance, vipassana is another path that (as far as I know) doesn't make claims to worshipping deities. Steve Hagen writes well on this, as does Gunaratana. Remember, the Buddha was agnostic. He simply gave advice. Follow it if it works for you. Buddhism doesn't address faith, but reality.
- gruseom 19y ago
  Both this and the parent comment strike me as very much a Western and modern spin on Buddhism. It's one I happen to be sympathetic to. But I'm also skeptical of what happens when such traditions are taken far out of their historical and cultural context.
  - dhimes 19y ago
    This is a great comment. I read folks I think are grounded in both contexts--modern and historical. Try "What the Buddha Taught" by Walpola Rahula for background.
    - gruseom 19y ago
      Speaking of modern variants, did you ever run across "After the Absolute" by David Gold? It's about the author's experiences with a hillbilly Zen teacher from the back woods of West Virginia. There's no historical connection to Buddhism (or even Zen for that matter) but it's a vivid story. The guy in question was a volatile character who half the time would share profound spiritual insights and the other half would pull a gun on you.
      - dhimes 19y ago
        Sounds interesting. I'll have to check it out.
  - radu_floricica 19y ago
    Of course it's modern and western, but not less useful. As for classical buddhism, as far as I got into it it's an ok religion, but just as full of myths and dogma as the orthodox christianity I was born in. I much prefer the modern version. Although after a little sorting I suspect I'd be very interested in a lot of old texts by Dogen and such - something that probably isn't true with christianity.

OpenWebU 19y ago

Actually, my boyfriend turned me onto Buddhism. He grew up with it - he's from Sri Lanka. He meditates every day, so much so that when he went to SF and they wired him up with the electrodes, his brain waves were really different. He's no wimp - He's a VP of a public tech company. He says it clears his mind, helps him make balanced decisions, and navigate company politics. Judgment is one of the most difficult parts of being an entrepreneur - so that anything that helps that could be positive.