As said above, I don't think anyone is confused except for you. Don't get me wrong, I think vegans and vegetarians can sometimes be annoyingly hypocritical and

As said above, I don't think anyone is confused except for you. Don't get me wrong, I think vegans and vegetarians can sometimes be annoyingly hypocritical and arbitrary, I think I see what you're trying to get at, but as for what constitutes a typical vegetarian diet I don't see why it's so hard to see the difference between milk and meat.