"Who’s not being stupid here? Apple? Should I go back to my Synology?" We (rsync.net) exist. You may find the 'borg' tool, which we support on the server side

"Who’s not being stupid here? Apple? Should I go back to my Synology?" We (rsync.net) exist. You may find the 'borg' tool, which we support on the server side, to be interesting: https://www.stavros.io/posts/holy-grail-backups/ https://www.stavros.io/posts/holy-grail-backups/ There is a longstanding "HN discount". Email for details.