I agree with you, it's a matter of time. Yet, there are a lot of those things you can still do with kids around without neglect them. That's a part (in my opin

I agree with you, it's a matter of time. Yet, there are a lot of those things you can still do with kids around without neglect them. That's a part (in my opinion) of education to involve them in your activities. Of course, it's not true on their first years, but when they start to grow, that's something you can do. For example, last December I went with my wife and my 7yo twins to a 10 days vacation in NYC. They enjoyed visiting the Met or the natural history museum, probably not in the same way my wife and I did, but still. And it was a great time for all of us. And kids go to sleepl early (for their well being), ours are in bed at 7:30pm, so there's still a lot of time to do plenty of stuff :-)