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>> facebook has very successfully created an ecosystem which makes it very very hard for you to escape and remain sane. Really? Ok granted, I'm probably "old"
by slantyyz 9y ago
>> facebook has very successfully created an ecosystem which makes it very very hard for you to escape and remain sane.
Really? Ok granted, I'm probably "old" for an HN user, but to me Facebook is a system that creates an artificial sense of connectedness. I don't consider that an essential service.
Do we all need to be connected to everyone and know what they're doing at all times? I've drifted away from friends I had 20, 30, 40 years ago, and that's perfectly OK. If people are important to you, you will find a way to stay connected. It's not the end of the world if you lose touch. It was a perfectly normal phenomena before social media, and it will be after social media as well.
As I've gotten older, I've noticed that I prefer fewer, deeper relationships than having a large number of shallow relationships. That's why I tend to use email/instant messaging with only my close friends/family. I have a Facebook presence, but it's only there to maintain weaker connections to people outside of my core social circle.
- sidyapa 9y agoThere is something greater than a social circle, the economic circle. It might not be for you but lot my contacts have transactional relationships with me, i.e., they have my details because they know I can offer something they have availed in the past and might someday need in the future, they trust me. And same goes for me, if someday I need my friend Tushaar's video and audio skills for some project I should be able to look him up instantly and message him rather than asking around helplessly within my social circle for his contact.