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I do consider the work that goes into it but I don't understand what I can do about it. It's like encountering a person lugging an enormous cross on their back
by hnaccy 9y ago
I do consider the work that goes into it but I don't understand what I can do about it.
It's like encountering a person lugging an enormous cross on their back, beyond gawking at the cross and chatting about how heavy it must be I'm not sure what I'm supposed to do.
- coldtea 9y agoHelp whenever possible?
- goldenkey 9y agoTalk about the weather, talk about current events, talk about video games, normal stuff..? People don't want to be reminded of the curse they've been afflicted with, especially if it isn't going to help change it. This goes for anyone who has a handicap. The handicap is always on a scale of 1 to 10 where at 1, it doesn't define the person, and at 10, their whole lifestyle is constrained. But nomatter what, no one on that scale wants to be reminded of a curse that is so vicious it affects so much of their life. Treat them as a person first, and maybe if you get to know them, then you can ask about the affliction.