> can I really blame Sure you can blame them and blame yourself. It doesn't have to be either or. Depending if you think internet is a safe small town neighbo

> can I really blame Sure you can blame them and blame yourself. It doesn't have to be either or. Depending if you think internet is a safe small town neighborhood or a hostile place full of bad actors constantly trying to gain entry into your systems. In the first case, nobody would say you're irresponsible because well it is unprecedented for burglary to happen there, in the second case the perpetrator would be guilty, but you'd be laughed at and ridiculed for being irresponsible as well. If you happen to hold someone else info (cough Equifax cough) you might even be sued, though ... you probably also have friends in the government and tons of lawyers to not really be bothered by it.