With the limited context I have of your interaction. > while swearing my health and welfare were his highest priority and intentionally leaving out the fact th

With the limited context I have of your interaction. > while swearing my health and welfare were his highest priority and intentionally leaving out the fact that he was a smoker and a toker. Unless he is smoking or toking in your presence or in public , I don't see how that's your concern. >We are catering to the lowest common denominator by spelling out what is and is not acceptable. I think the bigger problem is people exporting their own sensitivities out to public under the garb of social norm and culling everyone who doesn't prescribe to it.