Not to be flippant but try introspection. Why do you believe or desire the things you do? Be honest with yourself and try to keep in mind at all times the role

Not to be flippant but try introspection. Why do you believe or desire the things you do? Be honest with yourself and try to keep in mind at all times the role of moral/social pressure. Think about history and the different forms of status and normality that came before. Go ahead and read books by great thinkers but don't let that be everything. The most valuable form of learning is when you can untether yourself from appeals to authority in conversation and speak intelligently about your own conclusions.