You're not going to find any empathy here on HN. Given your experiences you should already know this. In the long run the only reliable way to avoid racism in t

You're not going to find any empathy here on HN. Given your experiences you should already know this. In the long run the only reliable way to avoid racism in the US is to avoid the US. The fact that you have to worry about potential racism already shows that you already know that it's an untenable position associate with US.