Ditto. >If on the other hand I have nothing better to do Ah ha! This requires having something planned or desiring to do something at that time. For me rather

Ditto. >If on the other hand I have nothing better to do Ah ha! This requires having something planned or desiring to do something at that time. For me rather than phrasing it as "nothing better to do" it comes down to "I don't have any current plans and while I may feel lazy and unmotivated, there's value in socializing with others". And yes, 9 out of 10 times I'm glad I did!