It most certainly is a game, and while I enjoy making others laugh when given the chance, when on the lookout for real interaction I just pay attention to the s

It most certainly is a game, and while I enjoy making others laugh when given the chance, when on the lookout for real interaction I just pay attention to the share of conversation in an interaction. Someone who asks no questions, talks too much, lacks eye-contact, says no goodbye - they are merely just being social 'just cause' and are, unfortunately, taken off of my list of people I care to be social with. If you are unable to detect when someone has no interest in getting to know you, and merely wants to leave you with some impression of their social superiority, just pay attention to how much they talk. If they never once get to know you, then do not waste your time with them. There are plenty of great people who are kind and caring - ask questions to people and see if they are willing to open up and listen for a change.