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You misunderstand me, I disagree, and I don't know how to change that. I have heard the "people are willing to help IF you do X,Y,Z" thing so often and have see
by hestipod 9y ago
You misunderstand me, I disagree, and I don't know how to change that. I have heard the "people are willing to help IF you do X,Y,Z" thing so often and have seen that even when I change and extend myself and expend great and limited energy to their requirements it doesn't work like you imagine and I find it really simplifies the complex set of issues I deal with and is victim blaming in the end. Sorry if I have offended you...I am explaining my position not trying to fight. I believe your intent is good and I do appreciate that intent. I just hope you can accept and believe me when I say I have "been there/done that" and would never choose to be defiant or screw my own life out of pride or attitude.
- overcast 9y agoBe more positive, go outside your limited comfort zone. Even if you think you have zero interest in it, try it anyhow. What's the worst that can happen? You meet someone new, and waste a couple hours of your life? I'm not totally familiar with your disabilities, but look at Stephen Hawking, Christopher Reeves. I just saw a dude with no legs doing things on a skateboard, that 15 year old me would have dreamed of doing. You're not offending me, stop apologizing for everything. Get out , and do something.