A while ago, I would regularly go to a kink happy hour at a local bar. I was talking with the organizer and, apparently they were almost not invited back after

A while ago, I would regularly go to a kink happy hour at a local bar. I was talking with the organizer and, apparently they were almost not invited back after the first one; because a significant amount of the attendees wouidn't actually get anything from the bar. (There is now an entrance fee redeemable for equal value at the bar).