s/surprised/angry/ People act like you're denigrating their entire way of life if you won't sell your house and move to the bay in return for their uninspiring

s/surprised/angry/ People act like you're denigrating their entire way of life if you won't sell your house and move to the bay in return for their uninspiring below-market salary and the chance to "disrupt" something. They get especially upset when I say that the cost of living differential would need to be 50%+ of total comp, plus around $30k in moving expenses.