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I would disagree that our society (presumably, North American society) judges a man's success solely by his wealth. Our society values men who are responsible -
by jm__87 9y ago
I would disagree that our society (presumably, North American society) judges a man's success solely by his wealth. Our society values men who are responsible - who can provide the best life for their family and protect them. I imagine if you had a ton of wealth but spent it only on yourself and didn't take care of your family, society would not deem you a success.
- dummyfunnytoo 9y agoI'm pretty sure as long as you drove around in the right car and lived in the right house while you neglected your family, society would still see you as successful. I wish it weren't the case but it seems to be reality.
- jm__87 9y agoAt a superficial level you would appear to be successful, as anyone who doesn't know you just sees the house and the car. As soon as anyone heard that you spend all your money on yourself and let your family eat scraps, I think most people would hate you. So the question is, do you care more about what some random stranger thinks about you or what people who actually know you think about you?
- yorwba 9y agoIf your family ate foie gras from golden plates, people would hate you, too. Success and approval are two different things. Someone may think that you are successful, but using that success in an irresponsible manner.
- jm__87 9y agoI think it is just OPs wording that got me arguing this point: "a man's success in life". Not a man's success in gaining material wealth. The argument I was trying to make (rather poorly it seems) is that people don't normally measure life success solely by the number in your bank account when you die, there are other measures as well.