You mean the one where the first line of the top comment says "Notice that most of the comments here are describing post-hoc how having children has been fulfil

You mean the one where the first line of the top comment says "Notice that most of the comments here are describing post-hoc how having children has been fulfilling/great/worth it. Which isn't really the question - it's not asking if having children was a good move in retrospect."? Yeah. I read that thread. Did you?