Context: My wife and I are software devs (C# / Java, Groovy, Pyhton, R), we chosen to have a kid at the end of 2014 after living in some countries together for

Context: My wife and I are software devs (C# / Java, Groovy, Pyhton, R), we chosen to have a kid at the end of 2014 after living in some countries together for 5 years, in 2016 we welcomed our first child. The first reason was that we considered our relationship strong enough to give an opportunity to a human being to be raised in a love home. We are very different from each other but always we try to solve our differences with several conversations, so we thought that a child raised with the ideas of diversity, dialogue, fun and social compromise will be a good way to improve the world. We are also considering to adopt in the future. The last reason was personal and cultural, in my family I am the only brother that decided to have children and I love the idea of teach alongside with my parents some of the important lessons that I learned from them.