People are more than welcome to judge me, and they do. Likewise, I get to judge her. I may be mistaken, but I don't believe I have any actual control over her

People are more than welcome to judge me, and they do. Likewise, I get to judge her. I may be mistaken, but I don't believe I have any actual control over her. Am I wrong? Do I have some secret ability to control her decisions? Because that would rock.