In general I would agree. I'm not catholic, but in that tradition they have the principle of subsidiarity: > Subsidiarity is an organizing principle that matte

In general I would agree. I'm not catholic, but in that tradition they have the principle of subsidiarity: > Subsidiarity is an organizing principle that matters ought to be handled by the smallest, lowest or least centralized competent authority. Taking care of your family is definitely a priority. I would also encourage supporting local charities and getting involved with the work too (ie volunteer days). You're right that its not just about the money, it just happens to be a resource that a lot of us have available, and merely giving can be a good place to start.