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> Because most people sink roots in their communities, they are reluctant to quit their job and move to a job that is far away. How common is this? As a child
by Xcelerate 9y ago
> Because most people sink roots in their communities, they are reluctant to quit their job and move to a job that is far away.
How common is this? As a child, my father changed jobs every few years, and we moved often as a result of that (until I was 10 at least). We even lived in France for three years because my dad thought it would be a good opportunity to learn about other cultures. So personally, I've never had any objection to moving for the best opportunity.
My wife on the other hand comes from a different background; she grew up in the same house in a rural town and thinks that moving hurts children's ability to develop friendships. She also believes that being close to family is more important than optimizing your career (although she has kindly agreed to move should a good opportunity arise).
Is the "stay in one spot" viewpoint becoming more common? I can see how this would lead to competitive job offers stagnating in a region if no one is willing to move into it or away from it.
- zitterbewegung 9y agoIt’s not becoming more common not all people have equal situations. Maybe you have parents that can’t take care of themselves. Maybe you can’t take of yourself. You could even like the weather or were you are born. Not everyone wants to live in New York or Silicon Valley. Not every person has rational actions or needs either .
- flukus 9y agoIME, it's very common, the default for most. Once you have kids and buy a house you've decided to stick to the same geographic area at least until the kids are adults. I'd guess it's even more common now that more children are living with single parents, one parent will be deprived of easy access to the kids if they were to relocate. It's the biggest reason people hate gentrification as well, they can quickly get priced out of an area they belong to.