You keep repeating this misconception even though you have been repeatedly been corrected over and over again. What you don't seem to realize is that the choice

You keep repeating this misconception even though you have been repeatedly been corrected over and over again. What you don't seem to realize is that the choice of coordinates in GR is arbitrary and local. There are types of coordinates that are singular at the event horizon, and there are others which are not. This has nothing to do with infalling vs. the exterior observer. You seem to think that time is somehow fixed for the exterior observer, but that couldn't be further from the truth. This is really, really trivial and really basic GR. I don't really know what to suggest apart from MTW[1], except maybe this basic course from http://theoreticalminimum.com/courses/general-relativity/2012/fall http://theoreticalminimum.com/courses/general-relativity/201.... If you understand what Penrose diagram are, and how to compute them, the answer is immediately obvious. [1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gravitation_(book) https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gravitation_(book)