So it looks like people want to know less about genocides and how both sides feel during it. The assumption here is that you are armed best with rigor and lack

So it looks like people want to know less about genocides and how both sides feel during it. The assumption here is that you are armed best with rigor and lack of knowledge. Guess what, it's not helping. You don't have to blame the victim, but you have to understand the criminal's motivation. This way you can at least gauge it against your own.