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> it helps lay the foundation for a healthy, non-helicoptering relationship with your kid I think that's a pretty big exaggeration. "helicopter parenting" usua

by untog 9y ago

> it helps lay the foundation for a healthy, non-helicoptering relationship with your kid I think that's a pretty big exaggeration. "helicopter parenting" usually characterises parents who refuse to/cannot step back from their child's life and let them make decisions on their own. A sleeping newborn child cannot make decision on it's own - the only acceptable form of parenting is helicopter parenting when your child isn't capable of doing anything for itself! Sudden Infant Death Syndrome exists. You can hardly blame people for wanting to protect their child from it.

xkcd-sucks 9y ago
Can a "sudden death syndrome" actually be reversed, or does monitoring just provide better estimates of death time?
- EADGBE 9y ago
  Our first daughter stopped breathing, turned purple and didn't come-to for what seemed like an eternity. I can't imagine what would have happened if she was alone during this time. She was alert when the paramedics showed up, but the subsequent tests at the hospital proved nothing. The cardiologist, nurses, and other doctors all seemed to agree that it was "nearly a SIDS thing" and that we just got lucky. After that night, and for every night since (2 more kids since then) we've used a breathing monitor. Occasionally I've noticed the kids will go in a "deep sleep", and the monitor will go off a few times during the night, you'll have to reposition them; they'll wince (in their sleep) and carry on. If that's what it takes, then that's what it takes. From my research after that event, it seems like SIDS is all-encompassing, and the amount of time allowed for an infant to slip into death may play a factor in it's "suddeness".
  - xkcd-sucks 9y ago
    interesting, wonder if there's a correlation to sleep apnea later in life
    - EADGBE 9y ago
      Could be, essentially there's a counter that counts seconds between "breaths" felt. Someone who forgets to breathe during sleep could certainly throw red flags on it's rather simplistic design.

by untog 9y ago

xkcd-sucks 9y ago

Can a "sudden death syndrome" actually be reversed, or does monitoring just provide better estimates of death time?

EADGBE 9y ago
Our first daughter stopped breathing, turned purple and didn't come-to for what seemed like an eternity. I can't imagine what would have happened if she was alone during this time. She was alert when the paramedics showed up, but the subsequent tests at the hospital proved nothing. The cardiologist, nurses, and other doctors all seemed to agree that it was "nearly a SIDS thing" and that we just got lucky. After that night, and for every night since (2 more kids since then) we've used a breathing monitor. Occasionally I've noticed the kids will go in a "deep sleep", and the monitor will go off a few times during the night, you'll have to reposition them; they'll wince (in their sleep) and carry on. If that's what it takes, then that's what it takes. From my research after that event, it seems like SIDS is all-encompassing, and the amount of time allowed for an infant to slip into death may play a factor in it's "suddeness".
- xkcd-sucks 9y ago
  interesting, wonder if there's a correlation to sleep apnea later in life
  - EADGBE 9y ago
    Could be, essentially there's a counter that counts seconds between "breaths" felt. Someone who forgets to breathe during sleep could certainly throw red flags on it's rather simplistic design.