nickbauman says>" I defy you to take your 11 year old self in that situation and do it differently." This is such an odd statement. The time is past, the actio

nickbauman says>" I defy you to take your 11 year old self in that situation and do it differently." This is such an odd statement. The time is past, the actions have occurred; they cannot be redone. All that remains are your memories and emotions, which can be changed. Everyone is different and no two people handle a situation in the same way. Its too bad that you were unable to get good advice and/or consolation at the time. But maybe, with some counseling, or discussion with friends, you can revisit this bad experience and others and change how you feel about them and yourself.