fully understand the cause. The cause is that “society” expects that to “grow up” a man must give up his hobbies and his friends and “settle down” (provide for

fully understand the cause. The cause is that “society” expects that to “grow up” a man must give up his hobbies and his friends and “settle down” (provide for a family as sole purpose in life). Someone will say “that’s how the patriarchy harms men too!” But I don’t think I believe that; I don’t think men say “hey bro, we should totally just give up all that cool stuff we do, for no reason”.