That covers a lot of territory. Trivialize abuse? If I say getting pushed by someone is no big deal because you couldn't dress/act/whatever however you wanted

That covers a lot of territory. Trivialize abuse? If I say getting pushed by someone is no big deal because you couldn't dress/act/whatever however you wanted because you could have avoided it (assuming the other group said it would be a reprocussion) I guess I would get banned? If I say your suffering is less severe than mine because of XYZ, will I get banned? I'm going to guess yes if I'm a white male and no if I'm anything else. What is a protected characteristic? The historical legal set including Vietnam service status, race, religion, etc, or are there newer ones?