I've worked in numerous coworking places across the US, from the local mom-and-pops to the larger global companies. All of them have private offices for rent,

I've worked in numerous coworking places across the US, from the local mom-and-pops to the larger global companies. All of them have private offices for rent, which curtails the noise issue. All have meeting rooms to book. Most have phone cubby-holes. My experience has also been that you can socialize as little or as much as you'd like, it's up to you. You can attend events, or not. You can drink, or not. That said, there are large cultural differences between the younger, startup-scenester spots and the more diverse small-business ones. The latter usually skew older and include non-tech businesses like attorneys and realtors. I prefer these and have enjoyed the "cross-pollination" of ideas and focus on turning a profit.