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>if I waiting for people to invite me first I end up with 0 friend but then those other people are begrudgingly inviting you out of politeness since you asked,
by heedlessly2 9y ago
>if I waiting for people to invite me first I end up with 0 friend
but then those other people are begrudgingly inviting you out of politeness since you asked, rather than being a genuine invite
- macintux 9y agoIt at least gives you an opportunity to get your foot in the door so next time it's a genuine invitation.
- heedlessly2 9y agoif you joined their whatsapp group out of self-invite and they begrudgingly obliged, then you will see all their invites and still be self-inviting yourself to their other events unless they personally asked you
- macintux 9y agoGotcha, I'm completely oblivious to Whatsapp.
- watwut 9y agoIt might just be that they don't even think about you as someone who is interesting in interacting. That they basically dont register that you exists. It is not necessary that they hate you.