> "having to accommodate one person in a group being chronically late is selfish on their part" That's not what's happening. If I'm running late I'm supposedly

> "having to accommodate one person in a group being chronically late is selfish on their part" That's not what's happening. If I'm running late I'm supposedly missing out too, by missing out on spending time with friends. What part of that is selfish? If I arrange to meet somewhere where they can start enjoying their evening, the only person that misses out is me.