>If it's hard, it's usually a psychological difficulty rather than a lack of opportunity. Sure, but that doesn't mean it's easier. In my experience, it's the

>If it's hard, it's usually a psychological difficulty rather than a lack of opportunity. Sure, but that doesn't mean it's easier. In my experience, it's the other way around, really. I am rather good at operating tools, and tools to deal with the physical barriers to socialization are usually pretty easy to operate. The psychological side of that, though, is... more difficult. There are tools there, too, but in my experience, those tools are much less well understood.