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I just get bored by the new people I meet, which makes me sad; I don't feel emotionally invested in the new folks I meet at all

• zbentley 9y ago
  Insisting on rapid emotional investment (in either direction) with new acquaintances, while not "wrong" per se, is equivalent to saying you'll only date people for whom you feel instant infatuation/"love at first sight". It massively reduces your options. These things take work, practice, and time.