Similar reality (most of my friends since 30, I'm 35 now), very different origins. I changed a lot as a person after 30 - I moved to the bay area for one thing

Similar reality (most of my friends since 30, I'm 35 now), very different origins. I changed a lot as a person after 30 - I moved to the bay area for one thing. I also transitioned... which let me meet other women in more feminine contexts (IE, fans of a clothing brand). I also met a lot of people who became friends through dating. Almost all of my friends that I see regularly I met in the last 5 years or so.