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I moved country when I was 21 for my first job, it was a complete culture shock to me and I didn't know anybody. It is really hard to make friends even when yo
by diaperIITB 9y ago
I moved country when I was 21 for my first job, it was a complete culture shock to me and I didn't know anybody.
It is really hard to make friends even when you are young.
Living in shared apartment, playing sport you love, going for dance classes, etc. These activities definitely helps. It took me 1 year to finally crack the code.
- sitajay 9y agoI have somewhat similar experience. I shifted from a small town to a metro city for pursuing my undergraduate programme. I was alienated from the whole class for not being 'cool' or 'hip' enough to hangout with them. External biases made it really hard for me to make friends. It took me time to get comfortable with who I am and what are my values. But still, I have an inferiority complex which hinders me to get along with anybody as the college experience still loops in my mind saying I am not enough.