> it feels insulting that I am not trusted to be nice to others This isn't targeted at you, though, or even the average person. Even if this stuff is obvious t

> it feels insulting that I am not trusted to be nice to others This isn't targeted at you, though, or even the average person. Even if this stuff is obvious to most people, there certainly exist people who can't be trusted to be nice to others, and they're the ones causing problems, so they're the most important target audience for a code of conduct.