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And, no one should have any issue reporting those people to their employers. If you act like scum, particularly with your employer in your profile, society shou

And, no one should have any issue reporting those people to their employers. If you act like scum, particularly with your employer in your profile, society should punish you.

Nadya 9y ago
People are always so quick to jump to this line of reasoning when popular opinion agrees with them. Would you be fine with losing your job for wrongthink if - or rather, when - social opinion swings the other way? It doesn't matter if you're right or wrong - you should be punished for disagreeing with society! Societal retribution for "wrongthink" is not the right answer. It's how you end up with LGBT losing their jobs where it's "wrong" to be LGBT - because the actual wrongness/rightness doesn't matter, just that society doesn't agree with them and that it's okay for society to punish them for being "wrong".
- enlightenedfool 9y ago
  Excellent point. The idea that someone should lose the job and livelihood because of a wrong doing is madness. The punishment should cause a behavior correction and not end of life. Such vengeful society we live in today!
  - tammer 9y ago
    Western society's concept of justice is largely focused on punitive retribution. A transformation to restorative action is needed here.
  - rectang 9y ago
    I wait with 'bated breath for this reformation to apply in the case of the United States' unprecedentedly large general prison population.
  - ethbro 9y ago
    I've seen the distinction between "disagreement" and "being a dick" disappear. I could phrase a hypothetical opinion two ways: 1) "I think abortion is wrong because I believe in the sanctity of life and that life begins at conception." 2) "Anyone who is pro-abortion is a baby murder." In the first, a viewpoint is stated in a respectful manner. You may agree or disagree, but the speaker wasn't deliberately demeaning or hostile. In the second, the same opinion was expressed, but in an overtly hostile way. If we'd like a plural society in which many viewpoints are exchanged, we have to continually challenge ourselves not to conflate the two when hearing or responding to someone else. And I get it -- it's not easy when one is passionate about something, even when one is willfully trying not to knee-jerk. But if I either speak disrespectfully, or assume that someone else is being disrespectful regardless of their actual phrasing, then we all end up in the gutter.
- grasshopperpurp 9y ago
  Did you miss the post I was responding to? Let me help you out. >I also see some pretty terrible behavior in Facebook comments on news sites/blogs right next to people's names, employer and a photo of them with their kid. Did you miss what this thread is about? It's about rude or trolling messages and sexual harassment. Are you intentionally missing the point?
  - humanrebar 9y ago
    Trolling behavior is generally against the rules of these sites. Often, it's actually a crime. If someone is harassing or threatening someone, just report them to the actual authority that will hold them accountable. If they don't do their jobs, by all means start calling their bosses, take the issue to twitter, write your Congressperson, etc.
    - s73v3r_ 9y ago
      Eh, it's pretty well known that the police will rarely, if ever, do anything about online stuff. They either lack the resources or the training to do so.
      - humanrebar 9y ago
        Sure. So let's hold law enforcement agencies and hosts of public forums (facebook, twitter, etc.) accountable for that.
- grasshopperpurp 9y ago
  How is this post not in violation of this guideline? >Please respond to the strongest plausible interpretation of what someone says, not a weaker one that's easier to criticize. Assume good faith.
  - dang 9y ago
    It arguably is, but since you were the one who took this thread into an off-topic and deeper circle of hell, I'd appreciate it if you'd reread the guidelines too: https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html.
- s73v3r_ 9y ago
  And people are always so quick to falsely equivocate awful behavior and stuff like being pro-LGBT rights.
- dang 9y ago
  > wrongthink This breaks the HN guideline against calling names in arguments, as well as the one that asks you to read other comments charitably (i.e. strongest plausible interpretation). To drop a term like that in a comment here is not really engaging with the other commenter, just trying to make them or their argument look bad. That leads to much lower-quality discussion, so please resist the temptation. https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
  - Nadya 9y ago
    Being punished for being against whatever is socially trendy is aptly described as "wrongthink" regardless of what is "wrong" it's "the wrong thinking". In the 1920s, dating across racial lines was "wrongthink" and in the modern day that's flipped - along with many other progressive values. I subscribe absolutely no value to what this "wrongthink" is but merely used the term to describe being against social norms. I don't care what those social norms are and I do not care if I agree with them or not. It isn't okay to punish someone on societies' whim for the same reason vigilante justice should be frowned upon and the same reason it isn't OK to punch a nazi in the face [0]. If we wake up tomorrow in a world where being racist is perfectly acceptable - should you be fired for not being racist? I'm not asking you to consider that a realistic possibility - I'm asking you to consider if it is okay. There are better ways of tackling racism/sexism than taking away peoples' livelihoods (which is likely going to have an effect on making them hold their positions more extremely than it is to have them change their opinions). [0] https://www.vice.com/en_ca/article/jppmn4/we-asked-an-ethicist-if-its-ok-to-punch-nazis-in-the-face https://www.vice.com/en_ca/article/jppmn4/we-asked-an-ethici...
nugi 9y ago
Your personal views should not affect your employment. Take your facism elsewhere.
- admiralpumpkin 9y ago
  Perhaps, but OP was referencing actions not views.
- grasshopperpurp 9y ago
  Did you miss the post I was responding to? Let me help you out. >I also see some pretty terrible behavior in Facebook comments on news sites/blogs right next to people's names, employer and a photo of them with their kid. Did you miss what this thread is about? It's about rude or trolling messages and sexual harassment. Are you intentionally missing the point? Edit: reposting my previous reply, because you made the same mistake.
  - lagadu 9y ago
    I don't think he did. It doesn't matter whether you believe Hitler was right or that Dipsy is the best teletubby, I believe everyone is entitled to their behaviour and beliefs during their time off work without any professional consequences to it. If there are legal consequences from something like harassement, then report to the correct authorities. No offence but it's it's people like you that make me glad I live in a country where employers are harshly punished for taking any actions against you based on your non-work related activities.
    - grasshopperpurp 9y ago
      You live in a country where you can actively promote Hitler's ideology on FB, with your company in your profile, without any repercussions? Which country is this?
      - dang 9y ago
        Ok, we've reached reductio and it's time to stop this flamewar, which you shouldn't have started in the first place. Could you please not do it again? Obviously the topic was divisive enough to begin with. https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
sli 9y ago
Oftentimes the profile picture is the kid and it makes me wonder, what would the kid think in 10 years about the parent saying such awful things alongside their image. They'll likely never even know, and won't ever see it, but I do wonder if these folks ask themselves that question.
snikeris 9y ago
It seems like you're of the opinion that it's our duty, as member's of society, to serve as people's parents after they've grown up. E.g. This guy is behaving poorly on the internet, therefore, it's my duty to punish him by whatever means necessary. Don't worry about such people. They will reap what they sow in time.
oh_sigh 9y ago
Is your life virtuous and pure? Or do you just hide or anonymize yourself when you do shitty things?
- grasshopperpurp 9y ago
  It's a low bar, but I certainly don't harass or troll people. If that's amazing to you, seek help.
  - googlryas 9y ago
    Is your implication that, because you don't harass or troll people, that you live a virtuous and pure life(which is what was asked)? If you think that's all it takes, seek help.
dang 9y ago
Please don't take HN threads on generic flamewar tangents. https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html We detached this subthread from https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=16392728 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=16392728 and marked it off-topic.

And, no one should have any issue reporting those people to their employers. If you act like scum, particularly with your employer in your profile, society should punish you.

Nadya 9y ago

People are always so quick to jump to this line of reasoning when popular opinion agrees with them. Would you be fine with losing your job for wrongthink if - or rather, when - social opinion swings the other way? It doesn't matter if you're right or wrong - you should be punished for disagreeing with society! Societal retribution for "wrongthink" is not the right answer. It's how you end up with LGBT losing their jobs where it's "wrong" to be LGBT - because the actual wrongness/rightness doesn't matter, just that society doesn't agree with them and that it's okay for society to punish them for being "wrong".

enlightenedfool 9y ago
Excellent point. The idea that someone should lose the job and livelihood because of a wrong doing is madness. The punishment should cause a behavior correction and not end of life. Such vengeful society we live in today!
- tammer 9y ago
  Western society's concept of justice is largely focused on punitive retribution. A transformation to restorative action is needed here.
- rectang 9y ago
  I wait with 'bated breath for this reformation to apply in the case of the United States' unprecedentedly large general prison population.
- ethbro 9y ago
  I've seen the distinction between "disagreement" and "being a dick" disappear. I could phrase a hypothetical opinion two ways: 1) "I think abortion is wrong because I believe in the sanctity of life and that life begins at conception." 2) "Anyone who is pro-abortion is a baby murder." In the first, a viewpoint is stated in a respectful manner. You may agree or disagree, but the speaker wasn't deliberately demeaning or hostile. In the second, the same opinion was expressed, but in an overtly hostile way. If we'd like a plural society in which many viewpoints are exchanged, we have to continually challenge ourselves not to conflate the two when hearing or responding to someone else. And I get it -- it's not easy when one is passionate about something, even when one is willfully trying not to knee-jerk. But if I either speak disrespectfully, or assume that someone else is being disrespectful regardless of their actual phrasing, then we all end up in the gutter.
grasshopperpurp 9y ago
Did you miss the post I was responding to? Let me help you out. >I also see some pretty terrible behavior in Facebook comments on news sites/blogs right next to people's names, employer and a photo of them with their kid. Did you miss what this thread is about? It's about rude or trolling messages and sexual harassment. Are you intentionally missing the point?
- humanrebar 9y ago
  Trolling behavior is generally against the rules of these sites. Often, it's actually a crime. If someone is harassing or threatening someone, just report them to the actual authority that will hold them accountable. If they don't do their jobs, by all means start calling their bosses, take the issue to twitter, write your Congressperson, etc.
  - s73v3r_ 9y ago
    Eh, it's pretty well known that the police will rarely, if ever, do anything about online stuff. They either lack the resources or the training to do so.
    - humanrebar 9y ago
      Sure. So let's hold law enforcement agencies and hosts of public forums (facebook, twitter, etc.) accountable for that.
grasshopperpurp 9y ago
How is this post not in violation of this guideline? >Please respond to the strongest plausible interpretation of what someone says, not a weaker one that's easier to criticize. Assume good faith.
- dang 9y ago
  It arguably is, but since you were the one who took this thread into an off-topic and deeper circle of hell, I'd appreciate it if you'd reread the guidelines too: https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html.
s73v3r_ 9y ago
And people are always so quick to falsely equivocate awful behavior and stuff like being pro-LGBT rights.
dang 9y ago
> wrongthink This breaks the HN guideline against calling names in arguments, as well as the one that asks you to read other comments charitably (i.e. strongest plausible interpretation). To drop a term like that in a comment here is not really engaging with the other commenter, just trying to make them or their argument look bad. That leads to much lower-quality discussion, so please resist the temptation. https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html
- Nadya 9y ago
  Being punished for being against whatever is socially trendy is aptly described as "wrongthink" regardless of what is "wrong" it's "the wrong thinking". In the 1920s, dating across racial lines was "wrongthink" and in the modern day that's flipped - along with many other progressive values. I subscribe absolutely no value to what this "wrongthink" is but merely used the term to describe being against social norms. I don't care what those social norms are and I do not care if I agree with them or not. It isn't okay to punish someone on societies' whim for the same reason vigilante justice should be frowned upon and the same reason it isn't OK to punch a nazi in the face [0]. If we wake up tomorrow in a world where being racist is perfectly acceptable - should you be fired for not being racist? I'm not asking you to consider that a realistic possibility - I'm asking you to consider if it is okay. There are better ways of tackling racism/sexism than taking away peoples' livelihoods (which is likely going to have an effect on making them hold their positions more extremely than it is to have them change their opinions). [0] https://www.vice.com/en_ca/article/jppmn4/we-asked-an-ethicist-if-its-ok-to-punch-nazis-in-the-face https://www.vice.com/en_ca/article/jppmn4/we-asked-an-ethici...

nugi 9y ago

Your personal views should not affect your employment. Take your facism elsewhere.

admiralpumpkin 9y ago
Perhaps, but OP was referencing actions not views.
grasshopperpurp 9y ago
Did you miss the post I was responding to? Let me help you out. >I also see some pretty terrible behavior in Facebook comments on news sites/blogs right next to people's names, employer and a photo of them with their kid. Did you miss what this thread is about? It's about rude or trolling messages and sexual harassment. Are you intentionally missing the point? Edit: reposting my previous reply, because you made the same mistake.
- lagadu 9y ago
  I don't think he did. It doesn't matter whether you believe Hitler was right or that Dipsy is the best teletubby, I believe everyone is entitled to their behaviour and beliefs during their time off work without any professional consequences to it. If there are legal consequences from something like harassement, then report to the correct authorities. No offence but it's it's people like you that make me glad I live in a country where employers are harshly punished for taking any actions against you based on your non-work related activities.
  - grasshopperpurp 9y ago
    You live in a country where you can actively promote Hitler's ideology on FB, with your company in your profile, without any repercussions? Which country is this?
    - dang 9y ago
      Ok, we've reached reductio and it's time to stop this flamewar, which you shouldn't have started in the first place. Could you please not do it again? Obviously the topic was divisive enough to begin with. https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html

sli 9y ago

Oftentimes the profile picture is the kid and it makes me wonder, what would the kid think in 10 years about the parent saying such awful things alongside their image. They'll likely never even know, and won't ever see it, but I do wonder if these folks ask themselves that question.

snikeris 9y ago

It seems like you're of the opinion that it's our duty, as member's of society, to serve as people's parents after they've grown up. E.g. This guy is behaving poorly on the internet, therefore, it's my duty to punish him by whatever means necessary. Don't worry about such people. They will reap what they sow in time.

oh_sigh 9y ago

Is your life virtuous and pure? Or do you just hide or anonymize yourself when you do shitty things?

grasshopperpurp 9y ago
It's a low bar, but I certainly don't harass or troll people. If that's amazing to you, seek help.
- googlryas 9y ago
  Is your implication that, because you don't harass or troll people, that you live a virtuous and pure life(which is what was asked)? If you think that's all it takes, seek help.

dang 9y ago

Please don't take HN threads on generic flamewar tangents. https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html We detached this subthread from https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=16392728 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=16392728 and marked it off-topic.