I'm not muddying anything. Come up with a specific definition and I can show you an example where it doesn't work. This is why the law doesn't use the word! In

I'm not muddying anything. Come up with a specific definition and I can show you an example where it doesn't work. This is why the law doesn't use the word! Instead there are laws against specific kinds of behavior that could be said to be rape, but use different terminology and apply in different ways. It's counter-productuve to cling to this one word to describe complex situations just because of the emotional weight and general ambiguity that the word carries.