I'm guessing you're referring to this quote from the OP: > “There was a certain amount of sexism as far as ogling,” she said. “But that went both ways.” [empha

I'm guessing you're referring to this quote from the OP: > “There was a certain amount of sexism as far as ogling,” she said. “But that went both ways.” [emphasis mine] You'd make a shitty historian because you can't seem to help but impose your modern POV onto historical events. These people clearly had a very different perspective than you on all of this, and their perspective is, frankly, the more important one.