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If only. I love a good search space. (Really, there are few things more delightful.) The people above you are usually as clueless as you are. They just conceal
by sillysaurus3 9y ago
If only. I love a good search space. (Really, there are few things more delightful.)
The people above you are usually as clueless as you are. They just conceal it with confidence. Which they acquire because you can't fire the people above you, and it's less likely for their decisions to destroy the company/team than for your decisions to get you pruned.
Being forced to bow your head and meekly speak in just the right way is enough to make me want to vomit. And I don't know where this feeling is coming from. It's very strong, and it came on in the last 6 months or so. It doesn't seem healthy.
It probably sounds like I look down on people who act that way. Quite the opposite. It's more like realizing we're all forced to act that way, all the time, and suddenly I'm not so sure this system is one we should want to submit to.
Even if people try to convince you that the power dynamic isn't there, it is. Every single decision you make is through the lens of "will this get me fired?" Especially when it matters, as this article illustrates. Which is by definition the most important time to take action.
- angersock 9y agoI'd go so far to say that, at least for senior staff, you have a job precisely because the founders lack experise or wisdom in many topics. Their decisions are not guaranteed to be correct at all.
- mseebach 9y agoHealthy teams have a dynamic where you can say what's on your mind and where you don't get fired for (single) mistakes. But this is not that. This is going to the board to get your co-founder fired. Damn right you better choose your words carefully.
- zapita 9y ago> Being forced to bow your head and meekly speak in just the right way is enough to make me want to vomit. And I don't know where this feeling is coming from. It's very strong, and it came on in the last 6 months or so. It doesn't seem healthy. You work in a toxic environment. Start looking for a new job asap.