I think the main focus here is to not hurting yourself rather than "focus on the flaws". I mean, if something is harm to you, you may need to consider stop doi

I think the main focus here is to not hurting yourself rather than "focus on the flaws". I mean, if something is harm to you, you may need to consider stop doing it before you been damaged permanently. Reduce the volume in this case for example. It's not saying you should stop listening music or enjoying your life, but you need to protect yourself from been hurt by doing those. After all, how can somebody listening music after became a deaf?