I believe that those 2 statements aren't mutually exclusive. To paraphrase Peterson it is important to participate in groups as we progress into society from a

I believe that those 2 statements aren't mutually exclusive. To paraphrase Peterson it is important to participate in groups as we progress into society from a dependent child relying on our parents into the various groups we socialize in. It is important to have a strong sense of self and individuality but equally important to know how to participate in groups and when to hold societal norms and when to challenge group psychology.