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> Nobody. Trust nobody. It's sad, but it's true. They're your employer---not your friend, not your family. It's not sad to me. It's common sense. In life, you
by HumanDrivenDev 9y ago
> Nobody. Trust nobody. It's sad, but it's true. They're your employer---not your friend, not your family.
It's not sad to me. It's common sense. In life, you trust your family and your friends - that's it. Anyone who isn't family or friends and who wants you to trust them is suspect (your boss, other companies, your government).
Of course you can have friendly relations with all and sundry in your company. I am on good terms with everyone where I work, from the cleaners to the regional CEO. But trust is a different matter altogether.
- TheSpiceIsLife 9y ago> In life, you trust your family and your friends Should we believe that family and friends are beyond the reach of the cardinal sins? I'm going to proclaim loudly: No! Family and friends are ideally placed to defraud us and sleep with our partner. This isn't and indictment against trust, because, in practice, we trust family and friends anyway, and are rightly surprised and disappointed when they let us down. We shouldn't be surprised or disappointed when HR, Legal, Management, etc, turn against us.
- candiodari 9y agoAll trust is relative. Is HR more trustworthy than, say, the Chinese government ? Yes (in most cases) is HR more trustworthy than far-off management of the company ? Usually, yes. Are your friends and colleagues more trustworthy than HR ? Definitely Is your family more trustworthy than your friends ? Usually Of course your situation may differ, and some common sense needs to be applied, but HR is VERY low on the trust ladder.