Would you make that same argument toward someone fantasizing about someone in their mind? The two seem parallel to me; I would guess most people are either mora

Would you make that same argument toward someone fantasizing about someone in their mind? The two seem parallel to me; I would guess most people are either morally for or against both (even though, yes, one is way more extreme than the other), but I'm super curious about whether/why someone might think e.g. imagination is fine but private visualizations aren't (or vice versa).