Yes, and I think that is the most important point about porn: it has very little to do with actual sex, it's not even supposed to be realistic. The best way I'

Yes, and I think that is the most important point about porn: it has very little to do with actual sex, it's not even supposed to be realistic. The best way I've seen that explained is car chases in movies. They are made to look exciting, but they are also very obviously unrealistic. Once you understand this, you can look at porn as an entertainment product and nothing more, which I think is the healthy way to approach it.