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The intention of this part is to ensure that the communication goes through. You do that with knowledge of the situation and the person across you. Could be a
by andrei_says_ 9y ago
The intention of this part is to ensure that the communication goes through. You do that with knowledge of the situation and the person across you.
Could be a few words, or could be a look in the eye and a nod.
I usually say something along the lines of “I’d appreciate if you could let me know if that cleared things for you.”
If it doesn’t feel right, don’t do it. In my experience it’s good to let the other person let me know how they are in the context of the situation and be willing to hear them out.
- woodandsteel 9y agoSometimes I say something like "I'm not sure if I made myself clear [which is true], could you tell me what you think I said?" That is a lot better than saying something that implies that you are afraid they didn't understand because you think they are a poor listener.
- andrei_says_ 9y agoExactly. The sentiment is: this/us is important to me, I want to make sure I communicated properly, if you’re willing, please help me ensure that.
- woodandsteel 9y agoSometimes I will say something like, "I'm not sure if I made myself clear [which is true], could you tell me what you thought I said?" This is better than saying something that implies you are afraid they didn't understand because you think they are a poor listener.